Damian’s grandmother passed away last night. His grandmother basically raised him since he was three. He lived with his mom occasionally but it was his grandma to really raise him and be there for him, his mom never was. She was like a rock, always there for him when he needed her. Honestly, losing his mom would have been easier for him.
He’s really strong so while it hurts he’s still okay, but please send positive vibes our way, and towards the rest of his family. It’s going to be a hard time, especially for his grandpa. It had almost been 49 years of marriage for them.
I’m not “selling my body” any more than a masseuse, or a construction worker, or a physical trainer, or a circus performer. On stage, I perform dance and pole tricks in exchange for tips. In lapdances, I provide people with a fantasy of intimacy. I use my body for work, just like any other physical laborer. Just because my form of labor involves nudity and sexuality doesn’t mean I’m selling any part of myself. My body never exchanges owners at work. It is always mine.